Thursday, April 7, 2016

SHAYAARI

Kal tak jo thay hum se ajnabi pehle mille nah thay hum se kabhi aaj wahi hamari sejj sajjay beithe hein hum gae thay kal ik kaam se bazar wahein per woh takra gay nazar hoi chaar tab se wohi hawaas per chaay beithe hein dekh ke unki mardana shakhshiyat maaeil ho gai un pe hamarii tabiyat ankhein ab hum rah mein bichaay beithe hein hoi thein jaab itefaqun nazrein chaar hum tu beithe apna sab kuch haar hogae hum tu ooper neeche se geelay bhag ke pakdi bas ho ke sharmashar phir bhi unke hi khiyal uljhaay beithe hein jo laga bas ko jhtka koi mujhe se aa chimta kamar se us ne pakda chootdon per uska tika tha tu kissi ka woh lauda magar lagta tha hathoda maza agia jab socha wohi mujhe liptaay beithe hein dekha jo mud ke ussi ko apne sath lage paya khushi hoi dekh ke woh mere tha peeche aya pakar ke uss ne ik muma sagoshi ki kiya le loon mein chutki acchi si sun ke hum muskra diye kuch keh nah sake uss ne jo diya hath mein tu reh gai hake bake ussi lamhe ko hum khiyalon mein basaay beithe hein itne mein aa giya hamara stop mein utar padi woh bhi aayga peeche thi hamein umeed badi dekha tu tha woh bhi pichle darwaze se utar aaya dil mein khushi k ladu phoote choot mein pani utar aaya tab se hi hum masti mein muskaay beithe hein dekha jo mud ke woh peecha kar rah tha dar rahe thay hum dil dhak dhak kar rah tha gali ke mod per hum khare hoe uske intezar mein jaldi se uss ne le liya hamein bahon ke hissaar mein rakh deiye uss ne humare lubon per lub soch liya chudwa ke rahein ge unse ab hum ne kah koi dekh le ga yahan poochne lage phir kahn chalte ho tu chalo hamare haan akele hein hum koi aur nahein wahan darwaz band karte hein uss ne hamein gira liya utha ke tangein hamari lun choot per tika diyaa choot tu pehle hi thi geeli ban gai thi samandar maze se khilne lagi usne jab rakha apna machandar zalim ne ik zor ka jhatka laga k kar diya sara andar uss waqt se hum hosh ganwaay beithay hein hum ne kah oh Dilbar oh mere jani thora hole dhake lagao karo itni mehrbaani choot tu ban gai tumhare laude ki aashiq aur hum hein aaj se app ki raani yun hum ik dooje mein samaay beithe hein

Monday, December 23, 2013

AGENDA

“To get the most success out of life have no agenda other than to give whatever you can in the present moment. A smile, a laugh, a quarter, a helping hand, an introduction or just your listening ear is more powerful than you can imagine. Beneath every gift is the knowing that the Universe is abundant and that you lose nothing by giving away what you have. Others will feel comfortable in your presence and all good things will find you – WITHOUT seeking them.”

I LOVE MOM / PIZZA

"People use the word 'love' a lot of different ways. Take me, for instance. I am often heard saying that I love my mom and dad. I am also often heard saying that I love pizza. What am I saying when I say I love my mom and dad? I'm saying that I care about them. I'm saying that I love spending time with them and that I talk to them every chance I get. I'm saying that if they needed me, I would do every humanly possible to help them. I'm saying that I always want what's best for them. What am I saying when I say I love pizza? Am I saying that I care deeply about pizza? Am I saying that I have a relationship with pizza? Am I saying that if pizza had a problem, I would be there for the pizza? (What? Not enough pepperoni? I'll be right there!) Of course not. When I say I love pizza, I'm just saying that I enjoy eating pizza until I don't want any more pizza. Once I'm tired of the pizza, I don't care what happens to the rest of it. I'll throw it away. I'll feed it to the dog. I'll stick it in the back of the refrigerator until it gets all green and moldy. It doesn't matter to me anymore. These are two very different definition of the word 'love'. It gets confusing when people start talking about love, and especially about loving you. Which way do these people love you? Do they want what is best for you, or do they just want you around because it is good for them, and they don't really care what happens to you? Next time someone looks deeply into your eyes and says 'I love you', look very deeply right back and say, 'Would that be pizza love, or the real thing?"

Saturday, October 19, 2013

END LIMITING BELIEFS

Limiting beliefs are like the plague. They spread to every aspect of your behavior, thinking and personality. They keep you locked in tight, immobile and helpless. Limiting beliefs often change how people perceive the world in general and people, too. How do you know that limiting beliefs are causing havoc in your life? Do you feel that you don’t deserve some things in life? Do you doubt your own abilities when you have to do something that isn’t part of your usual routine? Are you secretly afraid of change because you feel that survival would be hard after? Do you feel that you are somehow inferior compared to your colleagues or peers? Are you afraid of sharing your own ideas because they might be rejected? Do you doubt your own skills and abilities and refuse to use them when the opportunity arises for you to showcase your capabilities? Are you watching your contemporaries rise to the top while you are still near the bottom, still ‘not ready’ for the big time? Do you have trouble trusting those around you? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then it is confirmed: you are a victim of limiting beliefs. Limiting beliefs have the ability to force out the energies needed by a person to thrive and succeed. These sabotaging beliefs are fiercely protected by your own mind. When any idea becomes a belief, it becomes fiercely protected by the conscious and subconscious mind. When a belief becomes repeated behavior, it becomes a habit. Habits are much harder to break because they are deeply rooted patterns of behavior that are embedded in the subconscious half of the mind. I know this much because I was a victim of limiting beliefs, too. That is, until I started looking into the motivations and ideas that caused me to turn away good opportunities, relationships and chances for personal success. I discovered a secret code that could be used to break apart the limiting beliefs that can cause a person’s life to crack from the middle. It took me years to perfect this code, but once I was able to organize the steps needed to wrench apart limiting beliefs from the good beliefs that sustained me, I created a whole new system that the world has never seen before: a system that focused on the actual beliefs that held back people from health, wealth and success! There are countless books that ‘help’ people by setting goals and such… But these books never address the root cause of personal failure: LIMITING BELIEFS What if I told you that all the problems that you are facing right now are there not because there is something essentially wrong with you but because you actually believe that what you are doing now is all that you are entitled to? Personal beliefs can either free you or chain you. The BIG QUESTION now is: are you free or are you being held prisoner by your own beliefs? I know that this can be difficult to believe, but here are some facts: The human mind is capable of rationalizing ANY idea or belief, whether it’s right or wrong. When a belief is accepted at the subconscious level, it becomes IRREFUTABLE. Limiting beliefs can survive for decades without the person knowing it – these beliefs live and breathe alongside other positive and constructive beliefs in a person’s mind! To detect limiting beliefs, there are three essential things that you must learn: How to discover these limiting beliefs and see them for what they are How to neutralize limiting beliefs so they won’t cause you any more harm How to create a new life FREE from the chains of limiting beliefs I know that time is precious and frankly speaking, no one has spare time to waste – so I condensed my revolutionary new system into a 8-day system that is guaranteed to change the rules of personal success forever. 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During this exciting time, you will learn: The true nature of personal beliefs 3 steps to identifying limiting beliefs A 2-step process for creating new solutions to old problems How to utilize solutions to surface a limiting belief Personal revolution – transforming a limiting belief to a transformational belief Putting things into perspective: how a free man can be held prisoner by his own beliefs What happens when you live a life full of limiting beliefs The real root cause of limiting beliefs Beliefs as symptoms and not the actual disease Letting a belief ‘talk back’ to reveal its true character 360-degree life mapping – how to measure your progress with limiting beliefs Freeing the mind from the strong hold of limiting beliefs Developing the mindset needed to break free Separating fact and fiction: are your beliefs facts or not? Readying oneself for the 360 degree life turn Energies and emotions – how limiting beliefs are fed and fattened on your expense The single step that implodes a limiting belief so it will never bother you again! Day Two Day Two is all about your self-image and how you perceive yourself and what you are entitled to. It’s time to skyrocket your life state to immeasurable heights! In this module you will learn: How to create a healthy and progressive self-image How to deal with people’s perception of you Differentiating between what you truly believe in and what others think Dealing with the feeling of being helpless and paralyzed Why ‘playing it safe’ can be a traitorous companion Why ‘going with the flow’ can ruin your chances of success The location of limiting beliefs and understanding why they are so hard to find in the first place Separating limiting beliefs from the rest of your existing beliefs How to destroy limiting beliefs with pure fact The 8 common myths that can completely destroy a person’s chances of success Formulating a new way of thinking about life’s potentialities How to use limiting beliefs as the raw material for more powerful beliefs that are rooted in the positive/creative/productive The power of overestimating oneself How to detect and trash negative ideas before they can become limiting beliefs The power of taking responsibility and taking immediate action Click Below to Begin the First Day of the 360-Degree Life Turn NOW For Only $19.95! Day Three Day Three deals with fear and doubt – the twin demons of failure and discontent. Here’s what you will be learning in Day 3 of 8 Days to End Limiting Beliefs: Uncovering the true, irrational nature of fear and why it should never be used as a guide to anything in life Why fear is never accountable but continues to dictate your life The secret to using fear as a motivator How to use fear constructively Finding the Universe’s rewards by grabbing fear and using it as a compass How fear can help you develop a more rewarding life Situating fear within a new winner’s mindset Finding the path that leads to success Packing for the ride of your life How to never fall victim to fear again Uncover how doubt sabotages opportunities for success Imploding doubt with action Differentiating between plain doubt and true intuition Day Four Day Four reveals the cornerstone of a person’s life – his relationships. Are you involved in genuine relationships that nurture and help you achieve your dreams? If not, prepare yourself to learn: How to deal with the possibilities of disappointments and why the latter must not be a brake but a gas pedal to better relationships Liberating the mind from the fear of rejection Re-orienting yourself to the possibility of finding true relationships that can nurture and sustain you Finding people that will form your true circle of friends How to become a true friend Dealing with personal flaws and weaknesses Developing better relationships through continuous self-improvement Measuring your true capability to become a good friend Why everyone needs true friends The reason why love seems complicated and unreachable to some Super-boosting your self-confidence in preparation for your true love Images and illusions – why beauty is a poor indicator of your likability as a unique and lovable individual Discover what makes relationships work out – clue: it’s NEVER about money or luxurious living The connection between truth and limiting beliefs End Those Limiting Beliefs Before They Strangle Your Life for Good Day Five Have you ever felt that you will never measure up to anything? If you do, you may be dealing with limiting beliefs that center on perfectionism and failure. These limiting beliefs can be extremely toxic to people because they stifle creativity and force people into rigid, unattainable molds that never bring satisfaction or happiness to people. To some, perfectionism is a ‘requirement’ but in reality, it is never a key ingredient to success. In Day Five, I will teach you about: How perfectionism ruins your true potentials The negative impact of perfectionism on the human mind How to act upon the impulse to be ‘perfect’ and win at the end The secret to feeling worthy and proud of oneself even if you do not fit the mold of ‘perfection’ The difference between doing your best and striving to be perfect The true value of obstacles and stumbling on the way to the top Dealing with the idea that you have failed at something Day Six Day Six of 8 Days to End Limiting Beliefs is all about your finances and your beliefs regarding money and wealth. Too often people are stuck as to what they should believe when it comes to the acquisition of wealth. Limiting beliefs regarding wealth can cause wealth to stop coming. That is the primal law of universe – if you think you don’t deserve something, even secretly, you won’t get it. In this module you will learn: The difference between working for money and having money work for you The true nature of money and why it is not the root cause of evil The role of passion in amassing wealth How to combine passion, fun and wealth in one package that you can use again and again until you acquire the kind of wealth that you have always dreamed of How the mind adapts to negativity and why you should never adapt to something that makes life difficult for you Situation money in an abundant mindset Uncover Your True Potential with 8 Days to End Limiting Beliefs Day Seven Day Seven deals with another crippling theme: fear of the future. The modern man’s mind is often filled with countless anxieties and doubts regarding the future and the trouble it can bring. Mans’ general fear of change goes hand in hand with his fear of the future. Must you be trapped by your fear of the future so much so that you are unable to see the beauty of the present time? Here are the vital lessons that you will learn in Day Seven: Choosing to be happy at the present time, at all times Protecting yourself against beliefs that bar you from your personal desires How to think of the future Dealing with instability and uncertainty How the present time can help you take control of what happens in the future Discover the role of personal happiness in creating a brighter future The importance of appreciation How to expand your comfort zone Using logic to destroy limiting beliefs regarding the future The connection between your past and the limiting beliefs regarding the future Positive affirmations to condition your mind Why you should welcome uncertainty and surprises in the present time The role of hope in sustaining your present and future Day Eight Day 8 deals with happiness, the strongest motivator in the known Universe. Happiness is often the motivator and end-goal of most, if not all, human endeavor. This is the reason why you must always choose to be happy even if it means letting go of limiting beliefs that have become part of your general thinking and behavior. In Day 8 you will learn more about the following: Where happiness is really situated in your life Choosing the beliefs that make you happy How gratefulness can increase a person’s happiness and contentment Making an effort to identify beliefs that may have been there since childhood Reinventing your conception of change and what it entails in a person’s life Learning how to be happy now with what you have Does revenge truly make people happy? Analyzing how forgiveness solves deeply-rooted pain and emotional scars The number one enemy of happiness (you know him/her very well…) Dealing with other people’s expectations Is true happiness possible? Scientific studies on happiness How to change your current actions to make yourself happier than before 8 Days to End Limiting Beliefs was designed especially for people like you, who have already discovered that happiness can only be gained if the mind is willing to receive it. This exclusive code to breaking down limiting beliefs is for anyone who wishes to pursue unstoppable wealth, health and happiness because I believe that every person has the power to perform a 360-Degree Life Turn no matter where they are right now in their life. All that is left to do now is to click here so you can start on DAY ONE.

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

HINDUISM

If you require additional information or links please click on any of the words which have been underlined and this will take you to additional resources. Brahma creating the sound of OM at the beginning of the world Click on any of the underlined to take you straight to that part of the document, Size & Location, Origins, Holy Texts, What does a Hindu believe, Practices, The Gods, Worship, The Organisation INTRODUCTION Hinduism is a name that Westerners gave to the part of the Indian sub-continent. It was therefore defined by geography (and then came to represent to the West a set of traditions, beliefs and practices). The Hindu way of life, is more often called by Hindus ‘Sanatana Dharma’ (the eternal way of life). SIZE AND LOCATION This is the largest religion in Asia and the world's third largest, in terms of numbers of followers with approximately 806 million worldwide. About 400,000 – 555,000 followers are based in the UK. These tend to be descendants of Hindu immigrants. It is the main religion of India, where it began. From there it spread, about 1000 years ago, east along the trade routes to other lands. In some places other religions later became more important In others, like Sri Lanka and Malaysia, it is still the main religion. Back to top ORIGINS Hinduism has no single founder, no central authority or fixed creed. It is the world's oldest existing religion. Some aspects of Hinduism (such as the worship of natural forms e.g. rivers as gods) can be traced back 3,500 years to the peoples who moved into India from central Asia. By 400 BC Hinduism had developed most of its present features. However since then, there have been important changes in its beliefs and practices. Back to top HOLY TEXTS Hinduism has no one statement of beliefs (a creed.) A number of texts are however sacred. The basis of Hindu philosophy is found in the four Vedas. These are a collection of hymns, which had been passed on orally up until 1200BCE which is when the Vedas began to be written although they took hundreds of years to complete. The Rg Veda is the earliest and holiest (about 800BC). The Upanishads (about 600BC.) These consider the nature of the individual soul (Atman) and the universal soul (Brahman.) One of the Upanishads contains the earliest reference to the reincarnation of the soul in different bodies (transmigration) of the soul. The Mahabharata is an epic poem. It tells the story of a war between two branches of a family. The Bhagavad-Gita forms part of this and means "The Song of God." In it Vishnu relates his philosophy through Krishna. Krishna has come down in human form to the earth to help; he is an avartar of Vishnu i.e.. At the end of the Gita, Arjuna, who Krishna is talking to about his duty realises that he is Vishnu. This sets out rules for daily life that are still major sources of reference for Hindus today. One of the most famous Hindu epics is the Ramayana. This was probably based on the Mahabharata. It tells the story of the god Rama's battle with Ravana( the demon King.) One reason why it is so respected can be found in the introduction. This states: " He who reads and repeats this holy life giving Ramayana is liberated from all his sins and exalted with all his posterity to the highest heaven " Other important sacred books – Smriti (‘tradition) are the Laws of Manu (250 BC) and the Puranas (ancient tales) written at about the same time. Hindus revere all these works, as expressions of a shared belief, but do not follow all of the practices to which they refer, such as animal and even human sacrifice. Back to top WHAT DOES A HINDU BELIEVE? Despite the fact that Hinduism is not one belief or practice there are common ideas that run through it. Reincarnation One feature is a belief in reincarnation- the transmigration (the movement of the soul from one body to another ) of the soul( samsara.) A person's soul lives on and on through a continuous cycle of birth death and rebirth. This belief in the rebirth of the soul may have encouraged the further doctrine of non injury/violence (ahimsa.) If you thought that your life continued beyond the present one you might consider very carefully the warning contained in an inscription that reads that anyone who interfered with certain rights would: " suffer rebirth for 8,000 years as a worm in dung" A way of life not a theory. S. Radhakrishnan( a former President of India and a philosopher) said that for a Hindu, religion: "is not an idea but a power , not an intellectual proposition but a life conviction. Religion is consciousness of ultimate reality not a theory about God. " For many Hindus there are four goals in human life (purusharthas); 1 Moksha This is the ultimate goal. It means the release of the soul from the cycle of rebirth. The individual soul (Atman) unites with Brahman the universal soul. There are different ways to Moksha. There is the spiritual. This involves acquiring spiritual knowledge through yoga and meditation. The second way is by devotion to god and the third is by working selflessly for the good of society. 2 Dharma This is the code for leading one's life. What one's duties are depends on ones age and position. Respect for elders is considered important and many consider marriage as a son's religious duty. This requires three sorts of order/ harmony. One at a spiritual level with the universe. A second that requires order/ harmony in society and revolves around the caste system and a third which requires order/harmony of the individual by obedience to a moral code. The 10 embodiments of Dharma are listed in the Mahabharata. 3 Artha This is the pursuit of material gain by lawful means. 4 Karma This is a sort of snakes and ladders. Through pure acts, knowledge and devotion, you can reincarnate to a higher level. The opposite achieves the contrary result. There are four different paths to achieve Moksha which a Hindu can take. The Hindu can choose one or all four of the paths they are: 1 The path of knowledge - Jnana-Yoga Spiritual knowledge -leading to the knowledge of the relationship between the soul (atman) and God (Brahman) 2 The path of meditation - Bhakti-yoga The idea is to concentrate so you can reach the real self within you and become one with Brahman 3 The Path of Devotion - Bhakti-yoga Choosing a particular god or goddess and worshipping them throughout your life in actions, words and deeds. 4 The path of good works - Karma-yoga This involves doing all your duties correctly throughout your life. Back to top PRACTICES There are three basic practices: 1 Worship This is an integral part of the faith. Offerings (puja) are usually made to representations of the gods. 2 Cremation The dead are burnt not buried 3 Compliance with the rules of the caste system The caste system is a complicated division of society into different groups. Each group has rules of conduct to be obeyed. Caste is a matter of birth. You cannot apply to become a member of another caste and a change of job won't affect it. Change can only come about by re birth and the caste into which you are born depends on the acts committed in your previous life. The caste system is known as the Varnas, there are four varnas and they consist of: · Brahmins – the priests and intelligentsia · Kshatriyas – the administrators and military · Vaishyas – shop keepers, traders, farmers · Sudras – labourers and service workers Another group known as the ‘untouchables’ were below the other four groups. They would do all the dirtiest jobs. The Hindu leader Mahatma Gandhi in the early part of the 20th century worked tirelessly to try and integrate them into Hindu society. He called them ‘Harijans’ – the children of God. They preferred to be known now as Dalit – oppressed. The Varnas are then broken down into Jatis which are subsections of the main Varna such as: · Rarhi Brahmins - traditionally priests · Baidyas – traditionally doctors · Patidars – traditionally traders Elaborate taboos evolved around everyday matters such as diet or travel. It was once the case that if a high caste Brahmin worshipped at the same temple as a Dalit he would have to go through various rituals afterwards, to cleanse himself. Many of these rules disappeared after Indian Independence as the government sought to remove discrimination on the basis of caste. Now it is impossible to tell caste by a person's occupation. A poor peasant may well be from the Brahmin caste. It remains however an important aspect of the social culture. Many marriage arrangements are dictated by caste rules. Back to top THE GODS For many, but not all Hindus their religion is monotheistic.( They believe in one God only.) They believe in one ultimate truth that encompasses all reality ( Brahman.) At first glance it seems hard to reconcile this belief with the Knowledge that there are said to be as many as 330,000,000 Hindu gods and demons. This apparent contradiction can be explained on the basis that they are all manifestations of Brahman, the creative force. In early texts Brahman (the elemental creative spirit) was impersonal. It was not a god but something beyond god, it was " the unproduced producer of all that exists." No image of Brahman exists, as it has no form. It is an eternal presence. Reference to Brahma (the masculine of the neuter Brahman), (a manifestation of Brahman) as the creator god, started to appear later. By the 4th /5th century AD Brahma was one of a trinity of gods (the three gods are known as the Trimurti), in one of the creation myths Brahma emerges from a lotus flower which Vishnu is holding whilst resting on the back of the cosmic serpent in the primeval waters. The Trimurti is represented by Brahma (the creator) Vishnu (the preserver) and Shiva (the destroyer). They comprise the three main physical representations of Brahman, who together are all powerful. Brahma is the creator god. Images tend to show him with 4 heads and 4 arms. In these he holds a variety of objects. These usually include a drinking pot, a sceptre and the Vedas. Vishnu is the preserver. He protects what is good in the world, and appears whenever evil threatens to overwhelm it. He is shown wearing a high crown and smiling. His symbols are the conch, the lotus, the club and the discus. He has already had 9 incarnations and is expected to have another on the final destruction of this world. His incarnations have taken animal and human form. As a human he was incarnated as Rama and Krishna (and also as the Buddha). Shiva is the destroyer but as, in Hinduism, there can be no rebirth without death he is also the creator. Images show him with 1 or 5 faces, sometimes with a third eye and with 4 arms. These may hold his symbols of fire, a drum, a horn, and a trident or take up positions of action or protection. Often an arch of flame surrounds him (a common image is the dancing Shiva. He is also often represented by the lingam, a phallus. A follower of Vishnu is a Vaishnavite and a follower of Shiva is a Shaivite. Numerically Vaishnavites form the largest sect. The gods appear in different forms male, female, animal such as Ganesha the Elephant god. Other popular gods are Indra (god of rain), Chandra (moon god), Yama (god of death), Surya (sun god), Lakshmi (goddess of wealth), Hanuman (the devotee of Rama), Sarasvati (goddess of learning). The gods are important as they are regarded as channels through which the godhead can work . They provide an opportunity for darshan. This means the sight of the god, but also the insight that can be obtained through worship. Back to top WORSHIP Purpose This is often a normal part of daily life designed to meet daily needs e.g. requests for good health. It may also precede important events. Before new buildings are opened or new enterprises begun puja (ritual worship) is usually made to Ganesha (the elephant god) the bringer of prosperity and the clearer of obstacles. Places of worship Hindu Temples (Mandhirs), which are dedicated to different gods, are the focus of religious life. There is neither however any strong tradition of communal worship nor any obligation to worship in a Temple. There are simple shrines in streets and villages and most Hindu homes have their own where they undertake Puja at home, they will make offerings to their chosen god in the morning and the evening as a minimum. The shrine may be no more than a corner of a room, with a picture or statue of one or more gods. There is no obligation on a Hindu to go on pilgrimage, but many do. There are many places sacred to Hindus. These cover mountains, rivers and towns. Many Hindus try to bathe in the River Ganges, as it is said to wash away sins. Seven cities are considered particularly holy. These are known as tirthas. They are centres of pilgrimage. They include Ayodha, the birthplace of Rama, and Varanasi. They are looked upon as good places to die plus to be cremated as they are believed to link the world of earthly suffering to the divine plane. Forms of worship Any Hindu can worship but a priest normally carries out the more important acts. Worship may take several forms such as meditation, performing yoga (exercises aimed at controlling mind and body), reading holy texts or use of prayer beads Alternatively Puja may be performed. This must comply with forms laid down in holy texts (e.g. the Shastras and Agamas). Usually it involves an offering to the image of a god. It usually commences with the purification of the shrine. This is done by singing hymns and mantras (sacred psalms or words or phrases designed to aid concentration. These include the "om " creation symbol. The god is then awoken by the use of cymbals or bells. Rituals, which follow those of daily or yearly life cycles, may then be carried out. These can include washing or dressing the image. Finally gifts of money food or flowers are given and silent prayers offered. If performed in a Temple the Priest will mark the worshipper's forehead with red paste (a tika) as a sign of blessing. At the end of the ceremony the food which has been offered to the god is given out to those attending, this is called Prasad (Holy food). In special cases worship may include a procession. Each Temple will have a special festival. Festivals can range from simple village affairs to those that draw millions. There are also ceremonies that mark important life events. Back to top ORGANISATION Hinduism has no one organisation with the ability to define belief and dictate practice. Widely respected spiritual leaders and philosophers have however developed despite the lack of formal structure. Hindu life is structured so that people understand their personal and social roles, the four ASHRAMAS are seen as the ideal stages of life which a person should go through – it is not lived exactly as listed but they remain a powerful influence still today on a Hindu’s life – they are: · Brahmacharin – Student stage · Grihastha – Householder stage · Vanaprastha – Retiring / Retreating from society · Sannyasin – Holy man no ties with society SAMSKARAS - The Hindu Rites of Passage For Hindus they represent the important stages in a person's development. There are 16 samskaras and they are found in the law books of Manu (one of the Hindus sacred books). The 16 stages are: 1. Conception of a child 2. Special rituals performed during pregnancy 3. Special rituals performed during pregnancy 4. Birth ceremony 5. Naming ceremony 6. Child’s first outing at 4 months 7. Child’s first solid food 8. Child’s first haircut (1-3 years old) 9. Child’s ear pierced 10. Sacred thread ceremony 11. Start of formal education 12. Graduation from studies 13. Marriage 14. Retirement at around 60 15. Withdrawing from worldly concerns at around 75 to become a Sanyasa – Holy man. 16. Death rites

BUDDHISM

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Many people these days are reading books about Buddhism, practicing Buddhist meditation, and applying Buddhist ideas at work, play and with relationships. If you are one of those who is very interested in the dharma, you may one day decide to formally become a disciple of Buddha and live the path of understanding, faith and love. The aim of this web page is to help you familiarize yourself with what is needed to become a Buddhist. Below covers these topics: 1) Know the basics, 2) Understanding is Important, 3) How do I become a Buddhist? 4) The Affirmation and Ordination Ceremony, 5) What is the Meaning of Taking Refuge? 6) Taking the Bodhisattva Vows, 7) Taking the Five Precepts, 8) A Path Open to All. Buddhist Faith Fellowship of Connecticut Know the Basics If you would like to make Buddhism your religion, there are some things to consider. First, you should be familiar with the basic tenants of Buddhism such as karma, rebirth, Four Noble Truths, Eightfold Path, the Five Precepts, the Nembutsu, the Pure Land, and Amida Buddha. It is not necessary to accept all of these concepts in the beginning, but one should be willing to consider them. The Buddha never asked his disciples to believe something because he said it. He said that one needed to prove it true for oneself. Understanding is Important In Buddhism, understanding is the most important thing and understanding takes time. So do not impulsively rush into Buddhism. Take your time, ask questions, consider carefully, and then make your decision. The Buddha was not interested in having a large number of disciples. He was concerned that people should follow his teachings as a result of a careful investigation, consideration of the facts and personal experience. How do I become a Buddhist? Join a Buddhist sangha (a temple, church or group), support them, be supported by them and continue to learn more about the Buddha's teachings. Read about the teachings, apply them in your life, attend services and retreats, open your heart and mind to the working of Great Compassion. Then, when you are ready, you can formally become a Buddhist by undertaking the Affirmation or Ordination Ceremony. Affirmation and Ordination The decision to become a Buddhist is marked by either Affirmation or Ordination Ceremony. These two types of ceremonies are different but share certain religious aspects. First of all, the Affirmation Ceremony or the Kikyoshiki is unique to Shin Buddhism only. It is a form of personal religious confirmation, in which the participant publicly acknowledges his/her orientation and commitment to the Pure Land path of Shinran Shonin and the recognition of the working of Great Compassion (Other Power) in their lives. At the Buddhist Faith Fellowship, one must successfully take the Discovering Buddhism 101 Course in order to participate in this ceremony. We believe that one should have some background in the Buddha’s life, teachings and practices in order to undertake such an important ritual. As stated above, this ceremony is unique to Shin Buddhism, which is a lay religious movement and not a religious order. This ceremony does not entail the transmission of the Three Jewels or the Five or Ten Precepts from teacher (monk) to disciple. In Shin Buddhism, we are each others teachers. Moreover, according to Shin Buddhism, the ultimate transmission can only come from the direct and personal experience of the working of Great Compassion, which is called shinjin or true entrusting. What's more, Shin Buddhism does not formally have lay precepts, which can be received from human to human transmission; instead they manifest naturally through the shinjin experience. The Affirmation Ceremony allows the participant to publicly acknowledge his/her personal faith experience in the Buddha (Amida), the Dharma (the teachings and the truth) and the Sangha (those who practice the dharma and entrust themselves to the infinite life and light). Furthermore, the Affirmation Ceremony may also confirm the Five Precepts as the best ways to compassionately live in our suffering world. Again, this is not a transmission of the ethical code but just a reminder of its importance. In addition, the Affirmation Ceremony may include the reciting of the Six Paramitas, the Bodhisattva Vows and/or the Shin Buddhist Affirmation as reminders of the Buddhist path. In this ceremony, recipients are given a Buddhist name (homyo), an Affirmation Certificate and Shin Buddhist Okesa. There is usually a small donation requested to cover the costs. In contrast, the Ordination Ceremony is only conferred by a fully ordained monk, in which the lay participant receives the human to human or teacher to student, transmission of the Three Jewels and the Five Precepts and sometimes even can take the Bodhisattva Vows. The participant is then ordained as a lay follower or as it is know in Sanskrit as an upasaka (ordained lay male follower) or upasika (ordained lay female follower). He/she then receives a certificate and a Buddhist name. As a result, the ordainee is formally initiated as a lay member and linked to a monastic order, in which he/she dedicates him/herself to the Three Jewels and the Five Precepts. The ordaining monk is usually seen as the lay followers main teacher. These ordained lay followers may then, in the future, decide to intensify their practice and become fully ordained as monks (bhikkus) or nuns. The Ordination Ceremony is conducted by monastic orders only. Since the BFF is a lay congregation, it does not conduct ordinations. If you are interested in lay ordination please refer to a local Buddhist temple or center with a resident monk or nun. What is the Meaning of Taking Refuge? To publicly take refuge in the Three Jewels is to change the direction of ones life and make an effort to embody the Buddha, the Dharma and the Sangha. To take refuge in the Buddha is to take refuge in the living source of understanding, faith and compassion, symbolized as Amida, the Buddha of Eternal Life and Light and her historical human manifestation, Shakyamuni Buddha. One sees the historical Buddha as the greatest teacher and the embodiment of our true human potential. To take refuge in the Dharma is to take refuge in Reality-as-it-is, the Ocean of Oneness, the Buddhas teachings and the path of understanding, faith and compassion. To take refuge in the Sangha is to take refuge in the community that practices according to the Buddhist path and strives to manifest and embody Enlightenment here on Earth. The Three Jewels are present in every quarter of the universe as well as in our hearts, in every person and in all other species inhabiting every galaxy. By dedicating ourselves to learn, practice and embody the Three Jewels, you will have the proven vehicle to nourish the ability to love and understand within ourselves The Affirmation ceremony is the first step to becoming a disciple of Buddha. You begin the process to be transformed from within. Gradually, through the working of Other Power, you will be made to deeply realize that each of us is the main concern of Great Compassion. As Shinran Shonin said, we who are like rubble will be turned into gold. The colors of Buddha's enlightenment buddhistflag.gif The official Buddhist Flag Taking the Bodhisattva Vows The Bodhisattva Vows are the very essence of the Mahayana (Universal Vehicle) Buddhism. They are the torch lighting our spiritual path. These Vows are the great boat that carries us all to the Other Shore, the Pure Land, and the inspiration guiding us in this life with the great heart of compassion and love. A Bodhisattva is a being that devotes him or herself to compassionate deeds, striving to benefit all beings and seeking their Enlightenment before his or her own. By taking refuge in the Bodhisattva Vows, we endow our lives with profound spiritual meaning. They allow us to embody our highest religious aspirations, in which we commit ourselves to deeper understanding and love and selfless service. They have the power to transform us into gentle spiritual warriors with courageous armor of patience, perseverance and mindfulness, and enduring arrows of generosity, wisdom and compassion. These Vows are a living promise that we reaffirm everyday, not just once in a lifetime. Therefore, we should strive to recite them regularly and practice them always. Sentient Beings are numberless, I vow to save them all. Sufferings are inexhaustible, I vow to end them all. Dharmas are boundless, I vow to learn them all. The Buddha Way is unsurpassable, I vow to embody it. Taking the Five Precepts The Fivefold Precepts have the capacity to protect life and make our lives beautiful. They are not rules or commandments but are guidelines to wholesome and ethical living and truly witness our commitment to live an awakened life. Through the compassionate working of Amida in our lives, we are empowered to better practice them and are encouraged to move forward in the direction of peace, joy and awakening. Likewise, they are the foundation for the happiness of the individual, family and society. These Precepts help us avoid making mistakes and creating suffering, fear and despair but instead bring joy, understanding and peace into our suffering world. The Five Precepts are as follows: 1. I practice the training of love, I refrain from killing. 2. I practice the training of generosity, I refrain from stealing. 3. I practice the training of contentment, I refrain from sexual misconduct. 4. I practice the training of mindful speech, I refrain from harmful speech. 5. I practice the training of mindful consumption; I refrain from intoxicants & harmful substances that harm myself, society and the environment. A Path for All We are talking about going on a wonderful path and living a new kind of lifestyle. For 2,500 years, Buddhism has been a proven path for millions of practitioners. It may be now up to you to travel it too. You must understand this is completely possible; there is no reason at all that you cannot travel this path. This is the beauty of the Pure Land teachings: it is completely available to all whether we are saints or sinners, ignorant or wise. Remember Great Compassion always remain with us. She is moving, seeking and working to liberate you from suffering. Just stop, take notice and be grateful.